This journal entry has been written by Nicola, one of FATE's sponsors who is joining us on the trip.
We arrive at the Wema Centre today by taxi, there was a big steel gate manned by a security guard which was reassuring that they were protective of the chidren.
When Sarah got out of the car, some of the girls remembered her from her visit two years ago and within 5 minutes there were loads of girls surrounding us, holding our hand and excited by our presence.
One by one the sponsored children appeared, some of them had changed and seemed more confident to approach and interact with us.
We showed them the sponsors' video messages, they all loved them and I could tell them it made them feel special, so it was worth all the effort and embarrassment some people went through in producing them.
We then just spent time hanging around, being shown round the facilities, Sarah was please that there were some positive progressions such as making their own fuel, they know have 10 cows and calves when two years ago they only had one, they have a little farmyard enabling them to be self sufficient in some areas.
In the afternoon we visited some of the sponsored children who do not live at Wema.
Two of the children share the same mother, however one lives at the Wema centre, the mum is expecting another child and currently living in one room, in a very poor part of town.
Two others have both parents at home along with other family members and share a house. The dad is working and supporting the family which is rare.
One boy we found out has since been banished from his home as his mother has remarried and her new husband does not want him with them. His grandmother is currently looking after him along with 5 other small children and her daughter.
All of the families are living in poverty and all of them were very grateful to all the sponsors who support their children.
We kind of thought that the children who had families were fortunate that at least they had a home and parents who love them, however we soon realised that the children in Wema were more protected from the harsh realities of the outside world.
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